MLC BS

[Patrick325]

It's a long story but I will try to give an abbreviated version, if it's possible....Married 17 years, three daughters, very family oriented marriage, real estate takes a dive(she's a realtor) July '07 she drops the bomb, say's I take her for granted, ILYBINILWU, she wants me to move out, counseling for 9 weeks, I think she is having a EA with neighbor, Nov 25 I move out after threats of D hoping we can patch it up-have kids three nights a week, She starts dating neighbor late Dec, files for D in Jan, Feb she moves her and kids into neighbors house....I'm a wreck trying to decide if it's worth it to try to hang on...my lawyer is stalling as much as she can legally..she changed so much in the first 3 months of this I didn't know what to think...she lost 35 lbs, had lazer hair removal, and was very hateful toward me...she chose this guy over her kids and me and her family over the holidays(and she was super family oriented). but now she seems a lot more like her old self...more than she did anyhow....I am trying to DB but not doing the greatest...I am unsure how long I can hold out and if it's worth it...These guys on this site have been helping sooo much though....if it wasn't for them I would be in jail, dead or in a psych ward....Thanks guys!! But I still love my W (but I'm not "in" love with her..lol) If I ever get the chance I hope we can piece it back together....but with 3 kids going back and forth every week it's tough to get along with her...she tries to manipulate me. She get's angry when I don't do what she wants..financially she is trying to take me to the cleaners....it's hard enough knowing your spouse doesn't love you..but when they try to hurt you it is unbelievable...I feel like I awoke in a nightmare and I can't escape......this story probably sounds similair to a lot of people here..it seems like an epidemic!