CBK, I know that when I stopped snooping, I was doing great and feeling really good about myself. Once I got the urge to snoop again and did, well, you can tell by my thread what I have been feeling. I think that I am trying to model my sitch after H4U's. I think that Doing My Best's sitch is similar. I have been impressed by Puppy's advice to all on the board. I have been leaning toward the exposure. I have spoken to MIL already, but I don't think she has said anything to WW. Now considering telling our S14. He is very mature for his age, and knows how she feels. He has even told me that I prob have to let her go. He also has told me and WW that our girls should stay with me.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."