I'm afraid I don't like the overall tone of the letter. It is demanding. We simply can't get the flag to fly by demanding it. I suspect that you have tried friendlier approaches before and been unsuccessful and now you are just going straight for what you want, but I fear it will turn him off. Better to just say how much you miss the warm tenderness of your earlier relationship and describe it in detail, pornographic detail would be very good here. Ask if he will help you work to set time aside for just the two of you to enjoy each other. Plan an evening together, discuss what you would both like. I let my husband look at sexy lingerie catalogs such as Playboy and Victoria's Secret, and ask him what he thinks is the sexiest outfit. Then I order that one. You must be like the snake charmer charming the snake. You've done it before; you can do it again. If not, then perhaps he has a medical problem and needs to talk to his doctor.
