MY POST

Hey Roger, you know my post its Jeff from St.Louis, same situation you are in, kids, WAW - wife hasn't left yet and I just like you love her so much, I just want this nightmare to end.

At some point we have to call it quits, I'm not advocating D but I'm not advocating, letting them walk all over us and the kids. At some point you and I are going to say that's enough. I'm not going to be treated this way.

Snooping doesn't help, its made things worse for me, finding things that throw me into a tailspin, when I should be happy and working on myself.

I don't know what you should do, We are all here, we are all in the same boat, we all do love our wives, we are all being treated like sh_t and at some point, we are all going to make a stand, and let the chips fall where they fall

You posted a song lyrics somewhere, I checked out the band - sorry it wasn't my type of music, try this


Brandi Carlile
Turpentine Lyrics

I watch you grow away from me in photographs
And memories like spies
And salt betrays my eyes again
I started losing sleep and gaining weight
And wishing I was was ten again
So I could be your friend again

These days we go to waste like wine
That's turned to turpentine
It's six AM and I'm all messed up
I didn't maen to waste your time
So I'll fall back in line
But I'm warning you we're growing up

I heard you found some pretty words to say
You found your little game to play
and there's no one allowed in
Then just when we believe we could be great
Reality it permeates
And conquers from within again

These days we go to waste like wine
That's turned to turpentine
It's six AM and I'm all messed up
I didn't maen to waste your time
So I'll fall back in line
But I'm warning you we're growing up

We're OK I know we're OK
These days we go to waste like wine
That's turned to turpentine
It's six AM and I'm all messed up
I didn't mean to waste your time
So I'll fall back in line
But I'm warning you we're growing up

Trying to stay happy as my heart gets ripped out. Looking for love and affection (getting little or none). Waiting for the big earthquake to hit while I fight off the blues.

M45
W41
M10 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
2 Dogs and 1 Cat
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
PA confirmed 03/08 and still going ???