Hey Roger, you know my post its Jeff from St.Louis, same situation you are in, kids, WAW - wife hasn't left yet and I just like you love her so much, I just want this nightmare to end.
At some point we have to call it quits, I'm not advocating D but I'm not advocating, letting them walk all over us and the kids. At some point you and I are going to say that's enough. I'm not going to be treated this way.
Snooping doesn't help, its made things worse for me, finding things that throw me into a tailspin, when I should be happy and working on myself.
I don't know what you should do, We are all here, we are all in the same boat, we all do love our wives, we are all being treated like sh_t and at some point, we are all going to make a stand, and let the chips fall where they fall
You posted a song lyrics somewhere, I checked out the band - sorry it wasn't my type of music, try this
Brandi Carlile Turpentine Lyrics
I watch you grow away from me in photographs And memories like spies And salt betrays my eyes again I started losing sleep and gaining weight And wishing I was was ten again So I could be your friend again
These days we go to waste like wine That's turned to turpentine It's six AM and I'm all messed up I didn't maen to waste your time So I'll fall back in line But I'm warning you we're growing up
I heard you found some pretty words to say You found your little game to play and there's no one allowed in Then just when we believe we could be great Reality it permeates And conquers from within again
These days we go to waste like wine That's turned to turpentine It's six AM and I'm all messed up I didn't maen to waste your time So I'll fall back in line But I'm warning you we're growing up
We're OK I know we're OK These days we go to waste like wine That's turned to turpentine It's six AM and I'm all messed up I didn't mean to waste your time So I'll fall back in line But I'm warning you we're growing up
Trying to stay happy as my heart gets ripped out. Looking for love and affection (getting little or none). Waiting for the big earthquake to hit while I fight off the blues.
M45 W41 M10 years D9, D6, D6, S5 2 Dogs and 1 Cat OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me PA confirmed 03/08 and still going ???