We can work it out (part 3)

[Starshyne]

I think I am figuring out what is going on with H. I think he is seeing the OW again. I called him late this morning to tell him that I was going to be out. He doesn't answer, so I leave a voice message. He calls me about 15 mins later and says "Hi Amanda" (OW's name). I tell him that he is speaking to his wife and not his gf. He gets all appologetic and says that he has no clue why her name slipped out. Whatever. He has said 2 weekends in a row now that he is going to to "get the oil changed in the car." He hasn't been home all day. His mother should be coming over any mintue now.

I don't know what to think. Is he seeing the OW again? What should I do? It is REALLY difficult to trust him because he has broken that trust several times in our marriage. I WANT to believe that he isn't back having an affair, but part of me sees so many signs that they are back together.

Sara