Well none of this will serve him well when you go to court. Karen from Cali went through the same thing with her ex. He didn't get away with it but I forget exactly how it played out. I'll send her over to read your thread. Maybe she'll have some light to shed on this.
Oh and you're so right. We can't fix what we don't know, but it always hits me as so funny how these dissatisfactions become a bigger problem for them once they want out. So either they played the martyr all through the marriage or now they just needed as reason. Heck, if yours is anything like mine, some of the reasons that he stated I couldn't even answer to because most of the things he brought up I couldn't even remember. Now after 5 years he's rewritten history once again. Some of the things that I've quoted that he said and was so adamant about, he now says he never said. Go figure!
