(((Mary)))

Keep re-reading all our old posts to you. The advice is EXACTLY the same now as it was a week or few weeks ago. Honestly, I could cut and paste them - the advice is the same.

Detach
Focus on you
Take care of you
GAL
Do a 180 (or several) - what's something positive and different you can do for yourself?

I know we got into more detail before. I'm still dealing with a ton of stuff at home so I don't have a lot of time to post but I hope you'll go re-read our old posts to you. Keep reading them. It even helps to take notes on things that really "speak" to you or help you have an "ah ha" moment (and those things will change over time so it really does help to re-read things even weeks later).


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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