Like every one else has mentioned, H is very confused. It's typical of all WAS. There are so many positives in what he said to you. Let go of the negatives and focus only on the positives. Give him his space - remember don't call or email him unless it's really important, no R talks, no nagging. Be pleasant around him, act as if. You're doing great!
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