Kissak...I understand being tired...with 3 kids a new job...older, ailing parents...and the stresses of life in general...it was hard...I survived on my own for nearly 2 years...with most of that time being no contact with H by his choice...he said he wanted to be friends but I think he did that for my benefit because he always seemed to disappear for months at a time...missed many special events of our youngest, our only son that he was so proud of...he gave me no financial support...
Yet, despite all the odds...here we are...just last night he told me that he thanks God everyday for his wonderful wife...that's ME!!!...I tell him I thank God everyday for his return to the family...and me!
I am sorry to hear about the counseling...but your H needs to look at the big picture...if he is acknowledging his own issues then he will see the worth of keeping it going...also, sometimes you can negotiate with the Therapist as many get less from insurance anyway and will accept it from cash paying patients...another idea would to see if there are any support groups for persons with his issues and he could try that...the bottom line being what Grace said "I guess he'll have to decide how important he is."
