Honestly.. I was just hoping that thread would die.

I get that I come across as harsh. Fully understand that.

I don't mind so much that it happened and don't really want to hide from it, but as you can see not much productive stuff going on there.

There were some good things that came out of it but there was a huge distraction factor in it.

In the scheme of things I don't care if I was right or wrong. Its what I thought. My perception. My drama. My solution. Maybe I should have said **** off. I am not sure if that is allowed here.

I as your wife did not really want to talk about it.. but I was left with no other option. I just don't know when to quit sometimes.

Maybe your wife read the book.. She took it to heart.. And is acting "As If" she never had an affair.


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.