Brother I/We are walking the same road - Seems like no-where to turn .. Well wrong -
See you are seeking the support and help.. Here with us.. Post, Scream, cry - We have all done it or are continuing to feel and suffer the same pains..
I have been given the best advise -I could have ever gotten - from anywhere.. So again you are finally home with those who feel your pain and desire the best results possible..
So - it is my turn to attempt to help ..
1) You are correct..Give it to the LORD.. Changage him to guide you into living in his will and way - You have fallen - Please carry you and your burdens into his hands - HIS CONTROL..
2)Work on you 1st.. Not for her - but like YOU stated- "I WILL EVENTUALLY FIND MY OLD SELF-AGAIN.. " Well start finding that person - Right now- today .. Is it tough - Damn Skippy..
3) Keep going to GYM and work it off.. AGAIN -YOU ARE CORRECT- When in private - Scream , cuss, call names whatever- BUT GET IT OUT OF YOU - ...
4) Place blame on (W) as the (1ST OM)is only pressuring and wandering through available doors being opened by (W)and he is doing only what comes naturally..
5)Indentify - Why is she allowing new doors to (OM)'S ?? As you stated - You know or feel she doesn't think you will succeed and change ? But why -
WHY - We men and woman forgot our roles .. Here is what I am saying - She wants a MAN She needs a Leader She desires a PROTECTOR She wants to laugh and be young again -IN LOVE - We all need EXCITEMENT in our LIFE.. When we feel tramp - bored - stuffed - We forget our very natural instints ?? WHY ? But Our partners - Like being Naughty, it will bring on Attraction again.
I find it hard to believe - You were a lazy - No load SOB -She was attracted to - She she met you??
I am sure you were funny? You where confident ..You had goals and
M:43 G/F:45 R: 1 yr and 8 months
We all want to be loved... With someone who is in Love with You
