For the guys with kids and a WAW

[CBK]

Hope,

I am in a similar sitc - kids are older. I am not one to give advice as I am doing the same things you are. Doesn't matter how wrong we thinkg we are about snooping and caring, it just comes.

I have a few great posts on my string "totally lost after 23 years" you may want to check out.

One poster said, even though I realize this is going to be a long road, have I really accepted that? I don't think I have. Also, like you, I have nobody really to talk to, grab a beer and just vent because my W and I agreed nobody will know about her A.

Wish I could give you some hints, but I read so many posts and I still am an emotional wreck half the time.

I will be thinking of you.