voice mail of our song -advice pls

[buenosuerte]

i have no way of contacting him other then going through his mother to leave a msg and i won't do that, nor will i go to his house, i've been really good and strong about that.

we both had our phones disconnected bcuz argued so much in text msgs and voice mail, bills were $1000 a piece, i changed my number he has it and he changed his but won't give it to me.