I don't think he is a player. I think AG nailed it when she said "gunshy"...and really I think it is a good idea to go slow anyways.
This guy is pretty easy to track down, and I think he is telling me the truth when he says he has had trouble with relationships since his divorce, which was 7 years ago. He mentioned talking to a shrink, which I think is an excellent idea. I am doing the same! I like that he is in touch with his feelings enough to A) articulate them and B) work through them.
So I sent him an e-mail.
Quote:
"I understand completely. Give me a call in a week or two we can get together to do something fun. Have fun with your kids and I hope to hear from you soon."
The e-mail I got back was a simple, "Thanks for being understanding. Take care my friend"
So,
Last night went out with a different girlfriend...She has been doing e-harmony and she recommends it. It is less open than Match, which suits me fine since I work with the public.
That is life in my world these days!
SG
Survival Goddess "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker
