Totally Lost after 23 years

[CBK]

Another question for you all. How do act "as if" when my W walks in and I know she has been with the OM? I know it is EA right now, but still. She is out now, but when she comes home, the first thing I want to say is that she seemed distant last night, which she did. Is that okay to ask or is that pushing?

Does somebody have a magic want I could use? :-)