Thank you, Snodderly for your posts. They have really helped me a lot.

D16 is going to a pancake breakfast this morning and then later on to a youth activity at church so I will be busy playing taxi.

I am trying very hard not to think about H right now. The girls said they do not want him back here because all he does is get drunk. They are right and I am sure if he heard them say that, it would force him to think about what he is doing. He stopped drinking for one year with no problem but since he is facing his demons, drinking seems to be his choice of self-medicating.

H called S17 3-4 times lastnight from just after 6:30PM to 12:30AM this morning. I did not ask S17 what they talked about.

I don't think H can live without his family for very long but we'll see.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19