Good for you for not jumping at the chance to go out with him. I could totally see myself canceling my plans and going out with my H. So totally good for you!

I would be really ticked about the car payment. Heck, I am a little ticked about my H not paying his student loan and my name isn't connected to that. I think you need to really talk to him about this and let him know that paying part of it isn't a choice. If he can't pay the whole amount then he needs to sell the car.

My gosh, the comments your H made about that car totally sounds like mine!!!

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08