My concern is for YOU and your happiness. Mink - you and I have gottent to know each other over the past 6 months. You are an awesome dude who brings a lot to the table. There are many women out there that would give anything to be with a guy like you.
You have some big decisions to make in the very near future.
But this I promise... if things do not work out with W, you are going to be more than fine. My bet is that a guy like you will be "off the market" very very soon.