You ARE the total package.. my goodness, it jumps off the screen! My brother keeps asking me, how often are you going to analyze why the horse is dead. My answer is.. "Because I'm always surprised it is!"
A dead horse doesn't indicate a divorce, dead marriage, a difficult time. It's just that no matter how many times I whack at it, it doesn't change the fact that the horse isn't changing. And no, the horse may be in a coma, meditating, focusing on crapping.. not dead. All the time you give to that unmovable horse does nothing for you... or your wonderful vital energy.
Repeat after me..
"It's not about him.. it's about me."
Now practice that a few times. Now try..
"It's about me, not about him."
Uh huh.. keep repeating.. Now try..
"It's about me.. for me.. what I need."
Keep doing it.. you're worth it!
You are wonder incarnate. Think of yourself first, give yourself the oxygen mask before handing everything over to others. Let that beautiful spring of light and delight flow from you.. feel your joy in this terrible time.
Because you are wonderful..
You are worth it..
You are the total package.
It's not your withdrawn spouse's job to acknowledge it..
