I might be wrong but H is currently a man who won't even go to a parent's evening b/c it might mean spending time with me. He doesn't reply to any emails I send him and they are only ever about the children.
If it were me, I would let him go alone to parents evening.
I would also encourage your children to e-mail / write directly to their father themselves.
I really wouldn't bother. If he wants to know he should ask. Why should you 'force feed' him information about his children.
I think you need to drop the rope with this man.
SERIOUSLY.
Cat is right, let him go.
He is fighting to make you hear that he wants a divorce, If you hear him and give him what he wants, he may well find that he got what he wanted and he still feels no better.
It is difficult where children are concerned but at 15, your son is old enough to have his own relationship with his father in a way that both of them see fit.
Nutty
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
