From the sound of it, you may be dead on, brother. My WW had a messed up upbringing. It has to play a major role in her life. That is what concerns me. My kids. I now realize that I have to protect them from her destructive behavior. I thought that I could forgive WW, but the longer it goes, I don't know. Today, I also see her differently.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."