Does he have any kind of employee assistance program where he works? Sometimes you can get counceling (usually a limited number of sessions) this way and it's seperate from your ins. If not, I guess he'll have to decide how important he is.
I think his acting differently is partly b/c all this is new to him too (regardless that it was his idea) and he's trying to find his way. I know that while my contact with my H is very limited to non-existant, I think we are both trying to find ways to adapt and interact.
