What I have realized for myself is that detaching and "dropping the rope" wasn't giving up completely, though it felt that way when I stopped pursuing W/M and stopped gauging my actions on W's reactions to them. It was simply changing my focus. And you know what? My interactions with W improved. Even though you may not have a lot of interest in continuing the roller coaster ride, keep an open heart and open mind. You never know how things might evolve.
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