This may have been an unusual response but it is way better than the responses my girls have received when they have done something similar. One such TM prompted my H not to see or speak to D18 for over 6 months. Your H may not be fully 'cooked' but he is not completley raw like mine
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15