Okay it's been awhile since i've had some comments so i thought i'd try here. link below to other thread on LRT.

In a nutshell, i have been dark for 30 days no contact at all, nothing nada. last night i have this voice msg of only a song recorded, it was our song - number is restricted, the whole song played, nothing is said, just the song plays. i have only given my number to H and family, total of 3 people. i know it was him. why do that to me? what does it mean?

just when i'm about to go file for custody of our d 7.5months. we are not legally married - were engaged - should i file for custody and serve him? one of my goals was to wait bout a month if nothing changed then file, to the date of my waiting, he pulls this voice msg.

I did so well going dark, i GAL'ed my bootie off. i know i do miss him still love him of course, now what????
ADVICE PLEASE!!!


Previous thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1399469&page=1#Post1399469


Me 40 H 30
D19 previous marriage, d3 and s10months
H walked out nov 1, 2009
Seperated ever since
filed for d nov 2010, served h 12-22-10