Been away for a while again, but wanted to post a brief update. Essentially, my wife and I have been spending a lot of time together with the kids, and while it is not all going perfectly well, it's a hell of a lot better than it was. The roller coaster ride of up and down emotions from her continues, but that's not unexpected. Fact is, she wants to work on this and see how we can rebuild our marriage. A huge leap forward, as those of you that have been following my posts can attest.
We started couples counseling this week. Another huge step. Unfortunately, our counselor (the same one we went to for co-parent counseling) is leaving on vacation for three weeks, so it will be a while before we return. When we do go back, the counselor is going to have a session with me only, then her, then the both of us together. Obviously I'm very excited by the way this is going. Today, for the first time, there was even a bit of flirting between us, ever so subtle (on her part at least). No hugs or kisses yet, but I can be patient.
For those of you out there that doubt your situation will ever improve, then go back and see just how dark and hopeless mine was. You might find a bit of hope in knowing that if my horrible sitch can even get to where it is today, then there exists possibilities for anyone. Not saying I'm out of the woods yet, but this sure is an improvement.
Have a great weekend everyone!
Me: 39 WAW: 40 S10, D7, S6 Bomb #1 - 12-24-06: Move out (ILYBNILWY - admitted '05 PA) Move back: 3-2-07 (W: I still want to be married to you) Bomb # 2 - 4-11-07: (W: Can't do this - never loved you) Move out again: 4-29-07 Dark: 6-8-07
