Patience is key

[addie]

Hi everyone - Stella, Kalni, W2G, Jen, Ping, Kerry (hope I didn't leave anyone out)
Not much has been going on here. H makes contact every day with email/phone call and he's also been coming by just about every day. I don't know what's happened with his living situation but he hasn't mentioned anything since Tuesday and he sounded pretty desperate then. I'm not about to ask him.
A part of me wonders if he was trying to reach out to me and that was his way to save face. First he needs to come back due to finances, then due to his roommates, then he brings up S11 and how he wants to be here for him. The reason I needed to hear (that he wanted to try working on the marriage), he didn't mention at all. I know he's still very confused. Therefore I could not risk him coming back and have this happen again down the road.
Jen, you are right. It's the age of disposable marriages.
Kerry, that's funny. Antarctica is sounding more and more attractive.