I had a tough night tonight. I did a crappy job of DBing...My W called me tonigt and was pushing my buttons. She told me she wasn't going to pay her part of the mortgage anymore since she moved into the OM's house. Then she continued to go on and say that I was jealous because she was happy and I never made her happy. Unfortunately I didn't hold back and went on to tell her that this guy was going to leave her stranded one day and that what she had done was morally the lowest thing she could do....and then I told her that the only thing i ever wanted was for her to take me back.....I totally screwed up!!!!! I am so mad at myself but I just can't sit there and take abuse from her when she has done what she has done to me...now she is basically threatening me financially....I don't know if I will ever be able to forgive this woman for all the pain she is putting me through...it's almost like she is an evil witch trying to hurt me in every way she can......to start out she called me and told me how the kids weren't going to church Sunday because she wanted to take them to the beach with OM and his family and had to go on to tell me that her parents are going...like she s prposely shoving it in my face that they are accepting him....I am ready to explode!!!
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon