Ping, Thanks for stopping by and checking on me! That was nice of you and always appreciated! My coaching session went well. I am going to continue to lay low, and see where that takes me. She said if i didn't hear from him in a few more weeks, perhaps I should call him at that point, like on a friday night after work, and say hey would you want to grab a beer after work, if he says no, I can say that is ok, I'm still going to go. And leave it at that. No more, no less....just friends with no strings attatched.
As for your sitch, I think women in general, or at least in my case, I really started to second guess my decisions when I started hearing my H was moving on. When he stopped calling/texting all the time and I time to really think and start to wonder what he was up to, and then the first time I saw him, and I seen that he was happy without me...WOW what an eye opening day. It's hard to have reality smack you in the face, and man does it sting for a while. So IMHO, I think her seeing you as a happier man, can do nothing but help your sitch!
Hope you have a good weekend. Enjoy your S's ballgame christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
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and always appreciated! My coaching session went well. I am going to continue to lay low, and see where that takes me. She said if i didn't hear from him in a few more weeks, perhaps I should call him at that point, like on a friday night after work, and say hey would you want to grab a beer after work, if he says no, I can say that is ok, I'm still going to go. And leave it at that. No more, no less....just friends with no strings attatched. 