I just stay frustrated man. My son gets sworn in at a police department in my hometown on Monday morning at 11:00am. I sent my W an email telling her this morning, my son had asked me to do that. I'm thinking she won't bite, she will pass. I'll be damned if she does not reply back that she will attempt to make it. She wants to see her step son sworn in, but wants to D me...Hell I'm stumped.
If this is a test it pisses me off a little. I'm going to have to retain an attorney and that will be big $$$..My W is worth it, but damn it sucks in a way.. [/quote]
I hear what you are saying Mike, that is why I say it is not over. If W was really out of it, she would not want anything to do with you or your family. This is what my C tells me, normally when a spouse is ready to end things, they want out and nothing to do with their partner. Your W is not finished, keep that in mind.
I know about the dollars for the lawyer, if you recall I put a retainer fee on a lawyer about a month ago and then decided to put a hold on things as I want W to file, if she wants out so bad then she will be the one to file, not me. It is very expensive, I know.
Keep your head up, you are not done. She is still sending you mixed messages, live with those for now and continue forward.
