I think we are in a rut

[MichelleLT]

Okay, two things. First of all, you already had plans. Second, after that confession about the car insurance wouldn't you just want to smack the crap out of him?

That is SOOOOOO irresponsible. Especially since your name is on the car. He is going to HATE it and be FURIOUS with you, but you need to put your foot down. You need to protect your credit history. That is completely unacceptable and intolerable.