thank you all. I just wanted to post an update. results came back ... His kidneys are not working properly. The vet said best attack wouldbe for him to stay at the vet for a few days while they pumped him up with fluids. I said whatever it takes. It killed me to drop him off there. I was a crying mess. I took a towel with my perfume on it and his stuffed kitty. I pray to god he pulls through. This cat has been through alot of things with me. He has kept me going when I wanted to die. I always say he was the only male to stick around. Julie.. thanks for the TM today. I appeciatte it. I am going to visit him tomorrow. Thanks again everyone
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
