Mike, I feel the same way that you do, how can they be willing to give up everything we have built together, house, money, parents together, vacations together and so on. I guess when we drive them to this point they really believe this is best for them. IMHO, I still feel your W is not 100% sure what she wants, she even told you this, she could be testing the waters by seeing if she told you she still wants the D to see if you would go back to your old self. I feel this way at times that I am going through a test and W is seeing if I will pass or fail. Your W is still going to MC, good things can come from this, she is going to MC, good things can come from this also. Keep moving in the right direction, obviously she is second guessing herself right now.
I just stay frustrated man. My son gets sworn in at a police department in my hometown on Monday morning at 11:00am. I sent my W an email telling her this morning, my son had asked me to do that. I'm thinking she won't bite, she will pass. I'll be damned if she does not reply back that she will attempt to make it. She wants to see her step son sworn in, but wants to D me...Hell I'm stumped.
If this is a test it pisses me off a little. I'm going to have to retain an attorney and that will be big $$$..My W is worth it, but damn it sucks in a way..
