Totally Lost after 23 years

[CBK]

Thanks Addie. I have been reading the posting "Please help me! Wife wants out!" and it has been soooo helpful. I have been reading the trials and tribulations of Steve and saying, DON'T do that. Knowing there will be temporary set backs, I am so committed in making this work. Not becasue I need it, because I want it to, and if it doesn't, I will be fine and a better person in the long run. Now, only if I can keep this attidude... :-)

I have a question. I had told my W that there is a major restructuring coming down in my company. She kind of dismissed it when I got back from my trip. I just got off the phone and this will mean a possible major change for me - all good. Should I mention this to her or since I kind of already have, just let it ride out until the change actually happens or she asks me?

I have a mental sign in my mind - NO SNOOPING - this is my week goal. Also, no talks on OM, R or S. Focus on the positives, make me a happier person and woo my beautiful wife back to me after several months of DBing. Sounds easy - dang, I am in a lot of trouble.

Thanks again for the reply.