Well, H just called me at work. He asked me if I wanted to go and get a margarita tonight. I told him I didn't know, and I would call him after work. I sort of have plans tonight...they aren't set in stone...but I don't know if I should cancel what I was originally doing just because H called me. I can't go running to him everytime he calls. I am thinking about just telling him I have plans tonight but I can go tomorrow night.
He also made a confession about the car payment. He didn't pay the whole thing. He only paid $150 and the payment is $400. He said he didn't think it was a big deal because they would be glad they got SOMETHING. The sad thing is that he really believes that. What makes me mad is that he paid things like cable, internet, credit cards, phone bill, etc. before he paid the car payment.
I tried to keep quiet about it. He kept asking what the big deal was. I told him I just didn't want my credit to have a late payment on it. He said "Well it isn't like they are going to reposses the car." Then he told me he didn't want to be chastised and treated like a child. WTF!!! The ONLY thing I said is that I didn't want my credit dinged.
The thing is, it is going to be like that every month. He cannot afford that car. I have told him that I would be willing to trade cars with him...but he doesn't seem to want to do that. I think I need to put my foot down that he take me up on the offer or he sells it and gets something that I am not also responsible for.
. He didn't pay the whole thing. He only paid $150 and the payment is $400. He said he didn't think it was a big deal because they would be glad they got SOMETHING. The sad thing is that he really believes that. What makes me mad is that he paid things like cable, internet, credit cards, phone bill, etc. before he paid the car payment. 