Ugh, cw--I'm sorry he's being such an ass. What is wrong with these men? What do they think they're going to find that's so much better? I think of my H (if he actually does it) living in a small apt, seeing his kids part time, increasing our financial burdens and I think: how is that a recipe for happiness?
I'm with you on the commitment thing. I say love the one you're with. It's so self-indulgent. If it was against the law to get D, I KNOW my H & I would be able to make things great in our M. I'm sure it's the same for you. I don't like that your H is giving you such mixed messages--it's not fair.
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08