Ugh, cw--I'm sorry he's being such an ass. What is wrong with these men? What do they think they're going to find that's so much better? I think of my H (if he actually does it) living in a small apt, seeing his kids part time, increasing our financial burdens and I think: how is that a recipe for happiness?

I'm with you on the commitment thing. I say love the one you're with. It's so self-indulgent. If it was against the law to get D, I KNOW my H & I would be able to make things great in our M. I'm sure it's the same for you. I don't like that your H is giving you such mixed messages--it's not fair.


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08