OMG, what is it with men of this age? I get "poked" on teh f acebook all the time by men of this age (never reply). And you can't even see me on that picture...
I have a friend that is 40 and has been dating a woman 11 years older than him for the last 12 years. He told me that once I get over my H, the best way to recover is to find a younger man who will treat me like his godess. Maybe he is right.
So, what did this guy want from you?
K
I didn't want to ask if he dsicussed it with you, I figured that out, amazing how stupid they can be...(sorry)
H was a complete jerk yesterday....big surprise. H waited until he was done w/ work to text me that he was stopping to get clothes. He knew I wouldn't be home then. Then he sent me a couple of msgs. asking "permission" to do a couple of things, I guess because I am such a controling B. I have given all control to him the past 10 months, time for me to take control of my life and be happy. Anyone want to place bets on if and when I hear from him today. I am trying to figure out what I call him at this point when talking to people. I guess A..hole is too harsh, he is only legally my husband, sometimes I say D's dad, we haven't filed yet so I don't think I should say future ex. UGH! I hate this.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Oh s$$t, sounds like you are building up yourself some righteous (spelling?) anger...
Nothing good can come out of anger Liz, even if you do end up in court you need to keep your head straight.
I know, what I say isn't much help to you right now, but what you are feeling is probably all the frustration that you've been beating yourself up all these months and nothing good, no happy ending came out of it.
Stay low, don't give him control anymore of your thoughts and life and calm down.
You are right to be angry but don't let it get in your way to do things how you must for you and your Ds.
