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Does s15 want to live with his dad,

He prevaricates between yes and no. It's usually yes when he is mad at me.

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do you personally things it'd be for his best interests?

No I don't. H has got to used to being able to come and go as he pleases. As S15 is not a baby I don't think he will change his lifestyle if S15 went to live with him. I think S15 would spend most of his time by himself and therefore able to get up to even more mischief than he does now. I might be wrong but H is currently a man who won't even go to a parent's evening b/c it might mean spending time with me. He doesn't reply to any emails I send him and they are only ever about the children.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15