crisis adverted, I'm SO glad stbx didnt' pick up, (cringe) I actually called him and was (oh dear) going to ask him if he still wanted a D (rolling my eyes)
Thanks for giving me a glimpse of how a good life I can have, will have...God willing. I will be more than ok
another idea stolen, this one from frank_d again Your wife chose this course once before and, for whatever reason (perhaps due to your efforts), she changed her mind and waffled. But the decision never went far from her thoughts. In a sense, I think it was always there, waiting for "justification" to re-activate it. Yup, that was stbx when we were piecing alright, he actually had the nerve to tell me, when I found out about ow during the summer that I wasnt supportive enough and complained about his work. GRRR, we talked 90% of the time about his work at home, spend any $ we had on gear for him, he could go anywhere he wanted and do anything even if it meant less time for the family, just so he'll do well at work, I was in the back burner ALL the time! and turns out, I was "not supportive" Bleah, more madness from his part.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.