Friendship? I was thinking about it after reading HOPEFULinCAl thread the other day. I said there that me & H are in stage 2. Well, I guess we are not. You definitely are and you done some stage 3 stuff n the past too. So it should be easy to go there again, and stay there until you move to 4...
And ILY and an I miss you guys?! That's great! Keep going- you are definitely on the right track. I'm going to be a bit cliched now and dish out the usual advice...
Patience, patience, patience.
It takes the WAS time to come to terms with what they've done (IMHO). In the long term it'd be better for him to come back when he's ready and not before or he might run again which would just be awful. He IS coming though- I can feel it!!
(((hugs)))
L.xx
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
(((W2G))) keep up the good job! My dad who also lives in Canada waited 5 weeks for the same tests. I hope the province you're in is faster than his. I think it adds even more stress to the patient and family when the results take forever. Have faith because if it was negative resailts they'd be given much faster.
How is H doing? God he must be in so much pain.
The condo is a great sign for sure. Even if you never live there he's still holding a financial bond to you. Hs who want a D don't do that! They just don't.
hang tight
jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
