SF - first let me way how VERY sorry I am. My h has done this, and it is devastating when they run again, because however much we try not to, we let our guard down. But it is a sign that he isn't done yet, and actually although not as good as staying and working on the r, perhaps better than staying and not working on the r, if you see what I mean!

I had a long chat with my youngest son last night, who usually does not disucss his father, and I agree it isn't approp[riate, unless they are struggling emotinally. And let's face it MLC is not like a 'normal' separation. We are all dealing with someone saying and doing the most hurtful and inapprpriate things.

ANnyway my son said he thought his father had real issues with women, and i wondered if this might be why your h can't realte to his daughters right now? I only have sons, so don't know how my h would relate to a daughter, but he is now trying to move back into his son's lives much more than he did a few months ago.