you said :[b]I had not snooped in months either, and then I did...I'm not even sure why, maybe out of boredom. I didn't like what I saw, but I felt like I needed to see it. I am the kind of person who HAS to know. Maybe the need to validate is controlling, but it isn't like I can just trust what my H tells me. I am not encouraging your to do it...just letting you know I understand the need.[/b]
Yes I don't know what I will find but it is like a test for cancer... you don't want to find out if you have it but not taking the test won't make it go away...I am going to try to prepair myself for the worst but hope for the best.. Not sure if I will be back today so if not EVERYONE have a nice quiet NO HASSLE weekend
Dr LOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know