lwb- I just realized the other night that I've known my best friend now for about 25 years now. We'd lost touch along the way once or twice with my moves around the country but we're back in touch now. We are a lot a like in many ways. She's the one that helps me remember that it's fun to laugh! She won't be making it this weekend though. She's had a lot of health issues the past 7-8 months. Yeah, not good, BUT she called me today and said that they did some tests yesterday and ended up putting a stint in an artery around her heart. She said she feels SOOOO much better already. We're going to plan a weekend visit soon. I'm just glad she's doing better. It's been tough to see her not feeling well for so long.
I remember your H stalking OW for a while. It does seem like my H has done the same. The OW in my case is back with my H. Yes, she does seem to be wavering. To be honest though, it's not painful to see H chasing her any more. Yes, I do wish that he'd put that effort into our M, but I truly see it as sad. Kind of pathetic.....like he's desperate to hold on to anything new that will get him out of the life he's had. There are very, very brief moments when a picture will pop through my head of them together intimately. I have to remind myself that they're two sad, selfish people and that it's not about me.
Journaling....... A fun night with D4 last night. We went to the Mall of America to find a dress for my niece. We also had dinner there. D4 was an absolute angel the whole time. She couldn't quite understand why we couldn't go on the rides, but she did okay.
Talked to H for a little bit last night. Was a nice conversation. He went out after work to watch the MN Wild hockey game. Not sure what time he got home. He claims that he's going to see UFO in concert tonight. We actually had a laugh about something from my work. It was nice to have that kind of a talk with him even though he continues to have no regard for anyone else or anyone else's plans.
I told H last night that D4 and I would be going to the baseball game on Sunday. He was a bit surprised that I was going but thought it was a neat thing.
Not a lot else going on today. A bit overcast & rainy.
Hope anyone that felt the earthquake from So. Illinois is doing okay.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day