I think we are in a rut

[MichelleLT]

Relaxing is always good. Take it easy, you don't need to get sick again or anything. I am going to try and have a more laid-back Sunday since I am feeling a bit run ragged after the last couple weeks.

As for the cycle - I worry that I will get caught in some of the cycles I have seen on here too - where my H will come to me asking if the door is still open and then sit on the fence; or if he'll come back for a month/two then leave, then come back. That fear cannot stop you from moving forward though.

If you do get caught in a bit of a cycle, that means something has to change! It's just a matter of figuring out what, and if you are willing to do it.