Yep, it is exactly what I was doing before. Then he called out of the blue. He was the old H...but only for a couple of months.
I remeber at that time I questioned if he really knew what he wanted and he told me yes, that he was just having a crises and he was over it. I asked what if it happens again...he said "I can assure you it won't happen again, I know what I want". Hmmm...3 months later we are doing the same thing. THAT is what worries me, even if he does decide he wants to work on the M again. Will we be in this cycle forever?