I think taking off my ring and dropping (well at least looesening my grip on) the rope seems to have made a big difference. I am happier, and thus not putting any pressure on her.
If this is ture, if you are happier, then good. I am glad that you can see this.
Hang tight Doa, btw there is a poem I posted on Patrick's MLC/BS thread. I think you might like it.
Invictus
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
