It will be interesting to see what transpires over the next day or two. I have not made much effort to communicate with her this week. I have sent a couple emails, which she usually responds to...not this time. She is quiet.
She always pulls back after we have a good time, so this time I pulled back as well.
So, I am interested to see if this answers the question:
Does lack of contact from me give her the "space" she says she craves, and helps her clarify what she wants for the future?
Or,
Does lack of contact from me make her happier in her choice to not reconnect to the marriage?
On Sunday when I left her place, she said she would be over on Saturday (tomorrow) to help me put away all the stuff we took off our boat. Also, to pack away all the books that we aren't going to use.
I haven't called her to confirm, I just left it the way it was left.
Will she show up? Will she have rebuilt all her "walls" that came down when we were in Seattle last weekend? Or will she be open and sweet, the way she was last weekend?
