Things are going fairly decent, dare I say decent. Why? Not sure. I don't think it's due to anything I have done. W went with kids on a trip during spring break and things have been better since. There's still the emotional detachment, but not to the same level as before. Also the standard pressure about D has not come up yet. W is more responsive in conversation, but still "touch and go".
I guess I'm still trying to figure out if this is a trend, or a set up for a "mental slam". The be nice and then drop the bomb has happened in the past. However some things have been changing outside of the R that could be coming into play. Sorry I haven't been on here much for the rest of you, but some days I feel like with all I have done, I still might fail at this. Kind of hard to deal with and face first thing in the morning, or just before bed.
Have been meeting with a C. He has confirmed some of my thoughts, but hasn't quite accomplished much for me either. Made a trip down to the T finally, it was good and confirmed my position. It's a great feeling that with everything else in limbo, at least there is a place of piece to go to.
Will expound more later, but I thought that at least I should keep my DB pals in the loop. Hope things are well there on the home front. Last time I look things were doing better for you.
