This may be a dumb question, but have you said just exactly that sentence to him?
Keeping in mind that guys can't handle most of our 10 topic conversations, especially when we start bringing in justifications and emotions, that one sentence IF it's consistent with your actions, might turn a light on in his head.
My H doesn't get it either. He thinks love should be easy and fun, he hates to argue and will avoid telling me things he things will upset me both to avoid upsetting me and to avoid arguments. I wish there was a spell to make all our stupid WASs grow the f- up!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
