Fish, you can obviously do what you want to do and you can find the justifications for it as well. All I have to say is this OW is no prize, grabbing her friend's husband before the ink is even dry on the divorce. You're going to end up paying for this one in one way or another. She'll probably end up being a stalker or something. So, along those lines, you better start to "man up" and be a Dad first and foremost, not the boyfriend of this OW. Don't introduce them, don't let your daughter befriend her because that's just going to cause more heartache for that little girl down the line.

Good luck in your new life, and I think you're going to need it because you're apparently falling into every "Post-Divorce 101" trap. Fishy needs some help.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.